Poetry and Prose by #1 Amazon Bestselling Author of Nature Speaks of Love and Sorrow, Co-Author of #1 Amazon Bestseller, Wounds I Healed: The Poetry of Strong Women, and Jan/Feb 2022 Spillwords Press Author of the Month
I struggle to find the light, complete absence thereof, sets me off with a fright
struggling to breath, wondering if life is all that it seems
I get quiet, quiet enough to hear the hammering of my heart, against my painful chest
then,
it picks up speed, in relation to the myriad thoughts roiling around my head,
faster than anything can be said to have sped
slowing them down not possible, tools escape me, trapped, and isolated, tears well in my eyes, and I even, at that time, struggle to cry
they leak instead, when fullness overflows into stations of another portended foundation
and,
years later, I will reflect on these times, after learning has been delivered, and understanding is bourgeoning within my hearts center
holding these memories ever so lightly, abiding in my center and knowing, though painful, these experiences, were necessary, and needed, to live a life as full as heeded
I am so pleased to announce that my poem, The Brilliance of Life, is now available at MasticadoresUSA. Another big thank you to, Gabriela Marie Milton, and the team at MasticadoresUSA for their support, and for publishing this piece.
The Brilliance of Life
My heart breaks with every breath I take, and though Iโll keep moving, there are times when I just sit still, and let the emotions wash over meโฆ
I would be honored if you would go here and read the rest of my poem. Thank you!
until a whisper of something quite different came flying by, in pure insistence
unannounced at the time, was this tiny flicker of insight, waiting to be seen on just the right night
feeling first, is how it works
a stirring,
awaiting recognition, as it makes its way to the floor outside our open hearts door
knocking for entry, realizing weโre retreating,
it waits, wonders, and all the while saunters,
back and forth pacing, and relishing in the journey at our hearts very core
sending messages unheard, unseen, yet felt by those with the ability to be free from constricted sense-
abilities
arising more, while numbness subsides, resulting in a most fantastic grin, which I adore
ages come and go, yet, wherever we do travel, human beings on this planet know one thing for sure
open hearts have healed for ages, and will continue to far past the time when weโve left this plane forevermore
I sat down last night to write my diary entry, and, well, nothing came forward. That was, until I opened the document I use to write poetry drafts. Then, this piece came forward. How fun it all is.
It occurred to me recently that itโs been a while since Iโve posted anything on leadership; and, considering I spend a large portion of my week, nay, my life, conducting leadership activities, conversations, and collaborations, it seemed like just the time to create a new conversation.
In lieu of a diary entry this week, Iโm going back to a previous post about servant leadership, and picking up from there, with new eyes, as it were. Meaning, itโs been almost a year since the last post on servant leadership, and Iโve learned a lot about, well, everything in the last year. Update needed.
Ready? Good. Here we go.
What is servant leadership? Good question. Here is the definition.
โThe servant-leader is servant firstโฆ It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first. Then conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead. That person is sharply different from one who is leader first, perhaps because of the need to assuage an unusual power drive or to acquire material possessionsโฆThe leader-first and the servant-first are two extreme types. Between them there are shadings and blends that are part of the infinite variety of human nature.โย
I like to think about servant leadership as a leadership style that upends traditional notions of what leadership looks, sounds, and feels like. It is, thus, quite different. It is also harder.
Harder because servant leadership incorporates subtle elements of leadership. For instance, the emotional well-being of the self, and each person in the organization, business, and or team are of utmost importance. These more subtle elements of leadership are not always captured in other, more traditional leadership styles.
In order to fully grasp the distinction between traditional leadership, and servant leadership, letโs first take a quick look at organizational hierarchies.
Organizational Hierarchies
In traditional conversations and discussions about servant leadership, it is common to see, read, and hear about the concept of flipping the traditional leadership hierarchy.
Traditional Leadership Hierarchy
Distribution Property Solutions, Inc.
Servant Leadership Hierarchy
Distribution Property Solutions, Inc.
The concept of the inverted triangle, seen above, is common, and while I agree with this concept, in practice, servant leadership actually plays out a little differently.
It plays out in practice differently, because the flow of information happens between everyone all the time, and does not occur in a one-way directionality, as the above example illustrates.
Letโs take a look at what I am pointing to here.
Servant Leadership and Traditional Leadership
In my previous article on servant leadership, I elaborated on the distinction between a traditional approach to leadership, and a servant leadership approach to leadership.
Simply, in many traditional leadership theories, the leader is charged with distilling information, sending it out, and then holding people accountable.
In servant leadership, however, there is a dynamic context created through leadership of the self, of which all members of the team are responsible, creating a synergy of relationships and communication.
And, yet, even in the inverted servant leadership triangle, we see that the flow of information is distinguished with arrows, which still have a one-way directionality. As we will see in the next section, this concept is inadequate to fully describe how servant leadership is practiced.
Servant Leadership in Practice: A Diamond in Theory and Practice
In a context where servant leadership is practiced, information and communication is free flowing, collaborative, authentic, vulnerable, safe, and accountable. All of these things are true.
Information and Communication
Information does not flow from the top alone, as in a traditional leadership hierarchical model, nor does it only flow from the bottom, as in a servant leadership hierarchical model.ย
Rather, information and communication flow all throughout the organization, business, and or team, in such a way that at all times, each person is leading their portions of work, and is in continual communication about their progress and barriers.
It is then up to the CEO or Director to ensure that the flow of information and communication is continually moving throughout the entire organization, business, and or team.
Here is a simple diagram of how I see and experience servant leadership actually being practiced.
As you can see from the three-dimensional pyramid diagram, both traditional leadership and servant leadership hierarchies are disrupted, and replaced by a nonhierarchical model.
The implementation of a nonhierarchical model ensures that each person in the organization, business, and or on the team has a voice in all matters, including the vision, mission, values, and the future direction of the organization, business, and or team.
Though the servant leadership diamond diagram is not inclusive of all of the possible communication flows, many are outlined, which gives us the basis of the conceptual framework.
The servant leadership diamond diagram, and associated conceptual framework are also practical. Meaning, it is entirely possible to implement the servant leadership diamond conceptual framework into any organization, business, and or team.
In fact, it has been done, and is done every day by the team I work on and with; and, though harder at times, it is a beautiful experience.
In the next post on the Servant Leadership Diamond Framework, we will explore several concepts that leaders will need to understand to create the appropriate context for the successful implementation of a leadership framework that disrupts all hierarchies in favor of a nonhierarchical model; creating more voice and empowerment for everyone in the organization, business, and or team.