A Journey From the Unknown to the Known
I often write about paradoxes, well, because life is full of them. Really. And, as we recognize a paradox, we are poised to reconcile what is seemingly unknown into something that is known. Yep.
And, how does that aid leaders? Well, first, I consider leadership something that lives inside of everyone. Yep.
Leadership is something we can all do; and, in fact, leadership is something that most of us already do. Really. In some way in our life, we lead. Even if the leading you do is just for you; you are still leading.
And, we also know that in leadership the self is where it all starts. Yep. Also tue. Leadership goes out from you to everyone and everything else. It’s just how it works.
Leaders also need to know that most things are unknown, and that we know far less than is knowable. Important.
Therefore, inside of a paradox, there is an opportunity to turn something unknown into known, which is helpful for yourself, yep, and for everyone you are leading.
Now, before we go further, let’s define leadership, so we are all on the same page. Okay? Good. Here we go.
Pronunciation /ˈlēdərˌSHip/ /ˈlidərˌʃɪp/
The action of leading a group of people or an organization.
The state or position of being a leader.Lexico
Right. Pretty ambiguous. Hm.
Let’s try lead instead. Here we go.
Pronunciation /lēd/ /lid/
TRANSITIVE VERB led
Cause (a person or animal) to go with one by holding them by the hand, a halter, a rope, etc. while moving forward.
Show (someone or something) the way to a destination by going in front of or beside them.Lexico
Ah, much better. Here is what we have so far. A leader is someone that goes with someone, or shows someone something by going in front of or beside them. Very good.
Alright, so what are these three paradoxes? Right. Let’s get right into our discussion, shall we? Good. Here we go.
1. The Real and The Ideal
As a leader it is important to know the current reality. Meaning to know your strengths and weaknesses, and that of the teams. Super important. Yet, that’s not all. Nope.
You must also communicate that reality, and do so often. One of the most important functions in leadership is setting the pace and the reality. A reality that will include both strengths and weaknesses. It has to.
We all have areas to develop, as do teams, and when we own them, guess what?
We have now created a context that welcomes development, one that is open and growth-oriented. Fun.
Now, once you know and have communicated the current reality, it is time to begin to balance the real (current state or reality) with the ideal (future state or reality). Very important.
And, how this is done is predicated on knowing that everything we do today informs tomorrow, and that tomorrow is simply a mirror of today. Yep. Say more? Of course. Here we go.
2. Today and Tomorrow
Alright, so when we cast a vision for our life or our team, we are setting down in language that which we want to accomplish in a certain amount of time. Might be a week, a month, a year, or several years. Depends.
What matters is that we tie that vision, those specific goals, to objectives and priorities that we can set our sights on and work towards each day. Yep.
When we connect our daily actions to our long-term goals, we are actively creating tomorrow today. Wait, what? Yes. It’s true.
When we take actions today that are connected to goals we have in the future, we are creating our future from this very moment. Therefore, when we take action today, tomorrow ends up being a mirror of today. Meaning?
We are actively actualizing tomorrow’s goals today. One action at a time. Fun. And, truth.
The concept of creating your future from today is a very powerful concept for leaders, teams, and, well, everyone. And, what happens when we create a context full of this type of possibility?
Well, we lead, yes, and so do those around us. It works that way.
3. Lead and Follow
Right, so leadership as we’ve defined it has to do with going out in front, paving the way, if you will, with a vision that ties back to objectives and priorities that you, and your team, if you have one, work on each day. Yep.
And, when you are out in front like that, sometimes, you will have to pull back a bit, as the team moves closer to you. Yep. Or, if they are moving quickly, you may have to go out in front even further. Depends. And, guess what?
Sometimes, your team will move right on past you. Yep. Can and does happen. It is a beautiful thing to see really. And, when that happens?
No problem here, you, like they would, catch back up. Simple. The point?
That leadership is a complex, and yet very simple, set of relationships you have. First with yourself. Always with yourself first. And, then with everyone else around you.
Relationships are leadership. And, leadership is about having high-quality relationships. Yep. Bottom line? Sure.
Leaders lead and follow, both. They are, in fact, one and the same. Not separate at all. One.
Alright, so there are three leadership paradoxes that, when we have an awareness of how they function, create a context where we are connecting the unknown of tomorrow, or 5 years from now, to today. Meaning?
That we are creating the known from the unknown. In this very moment, in fact. And, well, that’s fun, and powerful.